Episode 42 Show Notes
9 Ways to practice Extreme Ownership at your school
1 Lead by example:
- Taking ownership of your actions and decisions sets a strong example for the entire school community
- encouraging accountability and responsibility among staff, students, and parents.
- If you point fingers and care more about blame, your team will do the same
2 Control your ego
- Ghandi said: “When the ego dies, the soul awakes”
- We all have an ego, the question is how big is it and how good am I at controlling it.
- Ego is diminished when you don’t care who gets the credit
3 See mistakes as learning opportunities:
- Leaders who practice extreme ownership see failures as learning opportunities rather than setbacks.
- They seek to understand what went wrong and make adjustments for improvement.
- Growth Mindset
4 Build trust and credibility:
- When leaders own up to their actions, they build trust with their team, students, and parents.
- Trust is crucial for effective leadership and collaboration.
- When your team members are worried that you are going to throw them under the bus, they will work less hard and take less risks.
- Be predictable
- When you mess up, own it, apologize sincerely and say that you will work hard to not do that again.
- Recently, I made a decision and then informed my IS teachers. Normally, I would discuss it at a meeting, get their feedback and then make a decision. I didn’t do that.
- I reflected and realized that I was pretty sure that they weren’t going to like it, so I just did it. I acknowledged how this made them feel, apologized, I should have looked at our track record together, will work hard to collaborate
- THEY KNOW THAT YOU MESSED UP. MORE AUTHENTIC. VULNERABLE.
- PEOPLE WANT TO FOLLOW A HUMAN BEING
6 Create a culture of ownership:
- By demonstrating accountability, private school leaders inspire others to take ownership of their roles and responsibilities,
- This creates a more cohesive and empowered school community.
7 Encourage open communication:
- When leaders take ownership of their mistakes, it becomes easier for others to admit their errors and share feedback.
- This open communication helps identify issues early and find effective solutions.
- Your teachers are more willing to speak up. NO ONE WILL SPEAK UP IF THEY ARE GOING TO GET BLAMED.
- If all of the ideas come from you, YOU ARE THE LID.
8 Adapt and innovate:
- Extreme ownership pushes leaders to be proactive and adaptive.
- They find creative ways to address challenges and continuously improve their school's performance.
- Extreme Ownership = Proactive, Blame Game = Reactive
9 Stay focused on the mission:
- Extreme ownership keeps leaders focused on the ultimate goals of your school.
- Focused on your vision and mission.
- Focus increases stamina and resilience
- When everyone’s head is on a swivel, wondering where the next burst from the blamethrower is coming from, they ARE NOT focused on what’s important
What is Extreme Ownership
- The idea of taking complete responsibility for one's actions and decisions, without blaming others or making excuses.
9 Ways to practice Extreme Ownership at your school
- Lead by example
- Control your ego
- See mistakes as learning opportunities
- Build trust and credibility
- Create a culture of ownership
- Encourage open communication
- Adapt and innovate
- Stay focused on the mission
Call to Action
- The next time you want to make an excuse or point the finger at someone else, practice Extreme Ownership
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